RitL Website Updates
◦The 12 Steps & Traditions update from last January was not correctly applied to all parts of the website. The 12 Steps & Traditions pages, download files and the website's steps/traditions header artwork.
Contact Us if you find any discrepancies on this website.
RitL Meetings at conferences & events
Contact Us if you would like to host an RitL meeting at an event.
RitL Group Updates
◦ Middlesex County, CT - Unfortunately the location where this meeting has been held closed suddenly.
Please email them for more info.
◦ New York City, NY - A meeting of RITL is now available weekly in
Manhattan. It is held on Wednesdays, and they ask people to try to arrive by 6:15
The meeting starts at 6:30 pm, and is hosted
at Purple Passion, 211 West 20th Street, New York NY, in the basement.
For more information, please e-mail them, or visit their
◦ Conf Call, Wed @ 8PM EST -
New Dial-in Number: 515-604-9000 | Access Code: 754538
◦ Philadelphia, PA - The long-running "Ties That Bind Us" kink meeting in Philadelphia is an RitL group.
They meet every Sunday, 2:30-3:30 p.m. at the Passional Boutique & Sexploratorium.
◦ Long Island, NY -
First Thurs of each month, from 7:30 – 9:00 PM @ Rancor Studios, 1014 New York Ave Huntington Station, NY 11746
◦ Ft. Lauderdale, FL -
The oldest RitL group usually meets monthly
on the 3rd Tuesday of the month at a private residence. Please e-mail Aarkey
for more information.
◦ Hartford, CT -
RitL group meets most Thursdays from 7 - 8:30 pm at the "Society in Hartford" - website. For more information e-mail
◦ Minneapolis & St. Paul, MN -
RitL meet on the second Thursday from 7:30 - 8:30 pm at Clare House, 929 Central Ave NE, Minneapolis MN 55413.
Fellowship follows after the meeting. For more information, please e-mail: email@example.com
or call 612-236-9515
◦ Lehigh Valley, PA - Every Sunday, a meeting
is held near in Lehigh Valley, PA (near
Allentown.) They meet at
66 W. Water Street, Hellertown, PA 18055.
Doors open at 4:45 and the meeting is from 5:00 – 6:00PM. For more information, please Contact: Lady Trinidad.
◦ Nashville, TN - RitL has a monthly meeting on the second Sunday from 4 to 5PM at
For additional information, please visit their
FetLife group or e-mail.
◦ Denver, CO -
A Recovery in The Lifestyle group "Any-A" meets every Monday from 6:45 - 7:45pm
at the "The Center" - website. For more information contact
◦ Atlanta, GA -
The group still meets on a weekly basis, but no longer has a monthly meeting at a local dungeon.
◦ Springfield, OR -
Each Sunday from 7 PM to 8:30 PM. Meeting location: Talisman house, those of you unfamiliar please contact
for directions and info.
◦ Cincinnati, Ohio - This group now meets every Sunday at a private residence.
For more info, please contact sunshine-sam by e-mail, or on FetLife
• RitL Weekly Conference Calls:
Each week on Wednesdays @ 8PM EST there is an RitL meeting behind held by conference call. There is no cost to access the call other than minutes used on your phone.
New Conference Call info (as of 7/4/16):
*Dial-in Number: 515-604-9000
Access Code: 754538 #
Online Meeting Link: join.freeconferencecall.com/ritl
International Dial-in Numbers available
Regular RitL meeting
Monday @ 7:30 PM EST
Send a request to: recoveryinthelifestyle on Skype
NOTE: If you would interested in starting another phone meeting, please
Mistress Stormy has purchased a few more patches. They are sold $20ea. Shipping is
included in the price. Please
contact us to place an order, and click here to find out more about the patches!
• The 7th Tradition - Where Money and Spirituality Mix
For information about 7th tradition contributions and our operating expenses, please visit this webpage.
Dec, 2015 - Thanks to anon for a $30 contribution!
June, 2015 - Thanks for the $200 donation from Atlanta RitL group, the $120 donation from the Oregon group, and the $40 donation from "anonymous" to RitL
to General Services
May, 2015 - Thanks for the $70 donation from basket collection at this year's Frolicon
July, 2014 - Thanks to the Recovery in the Lifestyle Minnesota group for their $100 contribution to RitL
April, 2014 - Thanks to Sir Joel for a
$50 contribution on behalf of the Vanguard
Leather group of Ft. Lauderdale
Sept, 2013 - Thanks to anon for a $20 contribution
June, 2013 - Thanks to the Michigan group for their $50 contribution to RitL
Possible Meetings of the Future?
☼ Phoenix, AZ:
There is interested in starting group in the Phoenix area. Please contact
slave Daddy Johnnie for more info.
☼ Indianapolis, IN:
Essentia has contacted us, and is interested
in starting group there. Please email
her for more information.
☼ Saratoga Springs, NY:
Kinkerbell has contacted us, and is interested in starting group there. Please contact
☼ Houston, TX:
We have received a contact in Houston who is
interested in starting a meeting, please
them for information.
☼ Fredrick, MD:
There is interest in starting a group near DC & Baltimore. Please contact
☼ Sydney, Australia:
There is interest in starting RitL down under in the Sydney! Please contact
Phi to get involved.
☼ Oakland / San Jose, CA:
There is a new group in the East Bay. Please contact
Raven to get involved.
☼ Boston, MA:
There are a few people talking about having a meeting in the Boston area. Contact
firstname.lastname@example.org for more information.
☼ New York City: Some
people have contacted us about starting an RiTL
group in New York City. If you would like to
get involved or want more information, please e-mail them.
Do you want to be listed here as someone seeking to
start a group in your area? Just send your info to email@example.com
and we'll get you listed here online!
RitL General Services News:
◦ An Update to our Steps & Traditions:
A discussion that formally began on our General Services Conference Call
in June of 2015 and continued in two more discussions in October & January 2016 has lead to
some wording changes in our steps and traditions. We have replaced the word "God" with "Higher Power"
and we have replaced the use of "Him/He" to "It or Itself." You can download the revised
Steps & Traditions in our document center.
◦ RitL General Services Conference Call: Got business? We
are creating a steering committee to handle
and help our fellowship evolve. If you any
topics or questions please don't hesitate to send us an e-mail
so that we can be of service.
RitL General Service Positions
Treasurer Mags has volunteered to
step in as group Treasurer, but we are
looking for someone to take the role
permanently. Mistress Stormy has
dutifully served as the treasurer for RitL
since its inception and we are grateful for
her longstanding service to the fellowship. If you
think you can be of service this way, please send us an e-mail.
Outreach Chair During our latest General Services RitL
call, we voted to
create an "Outreach Chairperson" position, RockerZee has graciously stepped up to be of
service. If you know of a lifestyle event
that might be willing to host an RitL
meeting, or print and distribute some of
our flyers, please contact Zee at:
firstname.lastname@example.org. For more information, please visit our outreach page.
RitL meetings not listed?
If you know of an RitL meeting that is not
listed here on our website, please contact us so we can add it to the
RitL Radio Interviews
◦ Interview with Mistress Stormy, slave Johanna & Aarkey 10/9/12 on
Recovery Radio Raw (link).
You can listen to it on their website here.
Its approximately 90 minutes long, and is available for your listening pleasure in MP3 format. We will keep you posted if there are any further interviews planned.
◦ Interview with Aarkey 9/26/12 on
Recovery Radio Raw (link).
You can listen to it on their website here.
Its approximately 54 minutes long, and is
available for your listening pleasure in MP3
Recovery in the Lifestyle Outreach:
We now have downloadable and printable flyers as well as the postcard/flyers to help spread awareness and carry outreach about RitL to other areas.
You can download the printable flyers from our
If you would like us to send some postcards for distribution
at appropriate places within your community, or at
conferences & events. Please contact
us and we will be happy to send you some cards at our cost. See a sample