RitL Newcomer Brochure
RitL now has a .pdf brochure! Big thanks to RockerZee for all her work!
RitL Daily Reader
RitL is going to publish our very own Daily Reader book! and we need your lovely recovery-oriented writing, a title and artwork to make it happen!
Please click this link for the official Submissions announcement!
RitL Website Updates
◦ The 12 Steps & Traditions update from last January was not correctly applied to all parts of the website. The 12 Steps & Traditions pages, download files and the website's steps/traditions header artwork.
Contact Us if you find any discrepancies on this website.
RitL Meetings at conferences & events
Contact Us if you would like to
learn more about having an RitL meeting at a
lifestyle conference or an event.
RitL Group Updates
◦ "Online" Weekly RitL Conference Calls with Discord
Each week the Recovery in the Lifestyle Online Fellowship meets using a free
PC & Phone application called Discord which
is available for all major platforms. Please visit the meeting page listing
for more information about our discord
server discord.gg/kXwW3cZ for the regular
meetings on Monday & Wednesday at 8PM, or the Women's only meeting on Sunday at 3PM EST.
NOTE: As of March 2019, we are having
some challenges with hosting our Wednesday
night meetings. Unless we find someone who
can make the commitment to lead on Wednesday
nights, we're going to have to close the
meeting, which is always sad.
We DO have hosts for Monday nights and would love to have you join us!
If you would like to get involved and chair the Wednesday Discord meeting, or to perhaps start a new one on another night,, please notify us
either via the Monday Discord meeting, or by
◦ Rockville, MD - First Monday of each month @ 8 PM, at a private home in the Twinbrook neighborhood of Rockville, MD. Contact
SenorDongle on FL,
or send an email to SenorXDongle@gmail.com for the address.
◦ Nashville, TN - Nashville has two monthly meetings, both are held at
The first is on the second Sunday at 4PM and the second is on the fourth Thursday at 7PM.
For additional information, please visit their
FetLife group or e-mail for info.
◦ Long Island, NY -
First and Third Monday of each month, from 7:30 9:00 PM @ Panera Bread, 345 Main Street in Huntington, NY 11743
◦ Akron/Cleveland, OH - A new meeting will be starting Wednesday, June 27 from 79pm at a private residence, please
NEOhioRitL@gmail.com, or visit the
FetLife to RSVP!
◦ Cincinnati, Ohio - This group now meets every Sunday at 445 Herman Street. Please read the full listing for the specifics on the location,
please contact Whipfather on FetLife.
◦ Ft. Lauderdale, FL - The original RitL
group meets on the third Tuesday of every other month, at a private residence in Wilton
Manors @ 8 PM. Please e-mail Aarkey for more info.
◦ West Palm Beach - There is now a meeting on the 1st Wed of every other month, from 7 - 8 PM at the
LGBT Compass Community Center in Lake Worth. Please e-mail Aarkey for more info.
◦ New York City, NY -
The weekly RitL meeting in Manhattan is on Wednesdays, downstars at Purple Passion. They ask people to try to arrive by 6:15.
For more information, please e-mail them, or visit their
◦ Hartford, CT -
RitL group meets most Thursdays from 7:30 - 8:30 pm at the "Society in Hartford" - website. For more information e-mail
◦ Philadelphia, PA - The long-running "Ties That Bind Us" kink meeting in Philadelphia is an RitL group.
They meet every Sunday, 2:30-3:30 p.m. at the Passional Boutique & Sexploratorium.
◦ Minneapolis & St. Paul, MN -
RitL meet on the second Thursday from 7:30 - 8:30 pm at Clare House, 929 Central Ave NE, Minneapolis MN 55413.
Fellowship follows after the meeting. For more information, please e-mail: firstname.lastname@example.org
or call 612-236-9515
◦ Atlanta, GA -
The group still meets on a weekly basis, but no longer has a monthly meeting at a local dungeon.
◦ Springfield, OR -
Each Sunday from 7 PM to 8:30 PM. Meeting location: Talisman house, those of you unfamiliar please contact
for directions and info.
•; RitL Weekly
Each week the Recovery in the Lifestyle Online Fellowship meets using an application called Discord which
is available for all PC platforms and Smart Phones. There is no cost for the app, or to access the meetings.
Our Discord Server Link:
Discord Regular Weekly Meetings
Monday & Wednesday @ 8PM EST
Closed Women's Meeting, Sunday 3PM EST
The Discord general chat is always open for anyone in need outside of
regular meeting times. It's a great way to
keep in touch, there is almost always
someone on (yes 24/7) and weve been known
to open impromptu meetings when there is a
Additional details are available in the
Discord Meeting Format document available here.
NOTE: You may want to consider creating an
Anonymous account that isn't your ordinary one with your full name, for anonymity sake.
NOTE: If you would interested in starting another "online" style, or free phone meeting, please
We have patches. They are sold $20ea. Shipping is
included in the price. Please
contact us to place an order, and click here to find out more about the patches!
• The 7th Tradition - Where Money and Spirituality Mix
For information about 7th tradition contributions and our operating expenses, please visit this webpage.
Recent Donations - thanks to:
RitL NYC - $200
SWLC - $33
RitL NYC - $40
Possible Meetings of the Future?
☼ Phoenix, AZ:
There is interested in starting group in the Phoenix area. Please contact
slave Daddy Johnnie for more info.
☼ Indianapolis, IN:
Essentia has contacted us, and is interested
in starting group there. Please email
her for more information.
☼ Saratoga Springs, NY:
Kinkerbell has contacted us, and is interested in starting group there. Please contact
☼ Houston, TX:
We have received a contact in Houston who is
interested in starting a meeting, please
them for information.
☼ Fredrick, MD:
There is interest in starting a group near DC & Baltimore. Please contact
☼ Sydney, Australia:
There is interest in starting RitL down under in the Sydney! Please contact
Phi to get involved.
☼ Los Angeles: Some
people have contacted us about starting an RiTL
group in LA. If you want to
get involved or want more information, please e-mail us.
Do you want to be listed here as someone seeking to
start a group in your area? Just send your info to email@example.com
and we'll get you listed here online!
RitL General Services News:
◦ An Update to our Steps & Traditions:
A discussion that formally began on our General Services Conference Call
in June of 2015 and continued in two more discussions in October & January 2016 has lead to
some wording changes in our steps and traditions. We have replaced the word "God" with "Higher Power"
and we have replaced the use of "Him/He" to "It or Itself." You can download the revised
Steps & Traditions in our document center.
◦ RitL General Services Conference Call: Got business? We
are creating a steering committee to handle
and help our fellowship evolve. If you any
topics or questions please don't hesitate to send us an e-mail
so that we can be of service.
RitL General Service Positions
Treasurer Mags has volunteered to
step in as group Treasurer, but we are
looking for someone to take the role
permanently. Mistress Stormy has
dutifully served as the treasurer for RitL
since its inception and we are grateful for
her longstanding service to the fellowship. If you
think you can be of service this way, please send us an e-mail.
Outreach Chair During our latest General Services RitL
call, we voted to
create an "Outreach Chairperson" position, RockerZee has graciously stepped up to be of
service. If you know of a lifestyle event
that might be willing to host an RitL
meeting, or print and distribute some of
our flyers, please contact Zee at:
firstname.lastname@example.org. For more information, please visit our outreach page.
RitL meetings not listed?
If you know of an RitL meeting that is not
listed here on our website, please contact us so we can add it to the
RitL Radio Interviews
◦ Interview with Mistress Stormy, slave Johanna & Aarkey 10/9/12 on
Recovery Radio Raw (link).
You can listen to it on their website here.
Its approximately 90 minutes long, and is available for your listening pleasure in MP3 format. We will keep you posted if there are any further interviews planned.
◦ Interview with Aarkey 9/26/12 on
Recovery Radio Raw (link).
You can listen to it on their website here.
Its approximately 54 minutes long, and is
available for your listening pleasure in MP3
Recovery in the Lifestyle Outreach:
We now have downloadable and printable flyers as well as the postcard/flyers to help spread awareness and carry outreach about RitL to other areas.
You can download the printable flyers from our
If you would like us to send some postcards for distribution
at appropriate places within your community, or at
conferences & events. Please contact
us and we will be happy to send you some cards at our cost. See a sample